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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you just have to make your choices in life. Like most of us. Just remember, you never ever will be able to have a happy family, healthy smart kids and successful carrier. Something will fail. I don't know what and I don't know when. But it always fails. I've seen so many families when husband finally begin cheating because this is not what he signed for, or kids develop ADHD or other health issues. Or your kids raised by nanny will never have a relations with you once they become an adults. It will catch up eventually. You just need to set your priorities now and never look back. If career is one of them, it is totally fine. It is great! But don't expect to have it all. I am much older and my kids are grown up, so I've seen it all. Whatever you choose, good luck to you![/quote]

wtf! of course she can have a happy family and career success. Your perspective is decades old. [/quote]

She's actually dead on correct.  I'm in my late 30's and agree completely with her assessment. [/quote]

This completely ignores the downsides of being the primary breadwinner for the male. Middle-aged educated white males are dying more than any other group - alcohol and drug abuse rates are staggering for this group, not to mention obesity. Get your head out of your ass. The old model of dad working and not being a parent while the mom raises kids didn't work. [/quote]

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