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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A tough decision. You say that you have been alone long enough, so it sounds like you have tried dating in the past (for years?) and didn’t find anyone better. His not having kids of his own may be an advantage in the future, in that you won’t need to negotiate which kids to go visit when they are grown, won’t have stress associated with whether you are welcome at his child’s wedding, etc.

But do you really enjoy being with him, outside the bedroom? Is this someone you would want to spend your golden years with, traveling the world in retirement, taking care of each other should you become ill? If you love talking with him and doing things with him, I would stay together. If it’s only for the security you would have, I would not. [/quote]

I'm a woman who desire just dried up after menopause, but I was never had a very high sex drive anyhow, but it was decent. So happy the man I married is my friend as well as my husband, because otherwise having to maintain a sex life would be unpleasant at this point. I have friends who are the complete opposite and can not have enough sex.

Will require some soul searching on your part OP; do you think sex will still be just as important to you in 5-10 years as it is now? Has your desire gone down with age? What you if met a man who was better in bed, but did not have a secure financial future or had a couple kids from a previous marriage? Is he just used to not having a lot of sex, having been single (and not married) for so long?[/quote]

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