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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH didn't have many friends when we first met. I'm also happy with a small circle for myself, so I never wanted him to change, but I have strongly encouraged him to pursue friendships whenever he meets people he likes, because I have seen too many old men who have no social network fall apart when their wives die. So from my perspective it wasn't about changing his habits or how often he wanted to go see his friends, but facilitating outings with new coworkers or neighbors he could connect with so he had more friends to choose from. This happened without judgment or pressure and he does seem much happier now, and that's what it was about: Whatever would make his life as fulfilling as it could be. I like to think that's the right approach to your partner as opposed to wanting to change a core component of his personality...[/quote] Op here- I actually really like this...thank you[/quote]
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