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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Fiancé and I have been together for 2.5 years now. Since I've known him, he's pretty much had no friends besides [b]two guys that he sees maybe every 3-5 months[/b]. He works 60 hours a week and come the weekend, doesn't want to do anything. I on the other hand, love to go grab dinner and drinks with some of my friends and their boyfriends or husbands. When we go out, he has a good time and is friendly with my best friends husband but not to the level of hanging out by themselves. He honesty doesn't care that he doesn't really have any friends but this bothers me. He thinks it's not a big deal but for some reason it just really bothers me. We spend a lot of weekends just going out together and running errands and grabbing dinner. Probably 1-2 weekends a month we go out with one of my couple friends. Would this bother anyone else? I want him to have his own set of friends that I can get to know and we can go out with or just friends he can go have guy time with. Is this a red flag or do some guys just truly not care about having close friends?[/quote]

I want everyone 2 see this. The fiance does have friends.

OP, is upset because he's not going out drinking with his buddies every weeken like her ex used to do. I'm not mking up the part about the ex she mentions him in her posts at 22:18 and 22:24

It's OP with the issues and she's projecting them onto her fiance.[/quote]

Op here- lol no. I'm not upset that he's not out drinking every weekend. If he was, that would be its own issue. The two guys I mentioned are literally in their 40s (fiancé is 27) and are more like family friends he grew up with that are friends of his dads. So yes they are "friends" but not really. And when I say that he sees them every 3-5 months, I mean he literally sees them at the grocery store or gas station and chats for 10 minutes type of thing. Last time he hung out with one of them was back in November when he helped one work on his truck. [/quote]

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