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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The red flag to me is that you're comparing him to your ex.

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Op here- not comparing, just giving an example. Trust me, no part of me would ever des[b]ire to be with my ex again lol [/b]I was just using that as an example. My best friends husband seems to constantly hang out with his best friend from high school and leave her with the baby so I guess I shouldn't complain. I honestly was just curious as I'm the complete opposite and I even grew up with my dad still having bi weekly "guys night" with his college buddies. [/quote]

You are so not over your ex.  You lol is very telling. Please don't marry your fiance. You are not in love with him. You are only 28. You have time to find another guy whom you will truly love. You do not need to rush into this to keep up with your friends, you do not need to get married to meet some arbitrary "by 30" deadline you created for yourself  when you were 19, you do not need to do this to have babies. You have time to find the right guy and have kids with him ( if kids is what you want) this guy is not it.
Please don't do it OP. Sve yourself the pain. Save him the pain.
It's hard, but it's easier to break up an engagement than it is a marriage. [/quote]

Op here- omg what? Where are you even getting ANY of that from? My ex and I had such a toxic relationship. He worked in law enforcement and was so controlling and emotionally abusive. I got out way later then I should have. So NO, I am not still into my ex. I love my fiancé. We have 0 issues at all and he's perfect for me. I wouldn't leave him because he has no friends. I was just truly curious if this was normal for anyone else's husband or boyfriend or whatever. I'm definitely more social then he is and that's never been an issue because when I do want to go out with friends, he's fine coming along. It always just made me a bit sad that he didn't have his own buddies to hang out with but I guess it can be normal for some people. [/quote]

It's the DCUM armchair Dr Phils.  Just laugh and disregard [/quote]

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