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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you don't want to get trapped, don't put sperm in them. [/quote]

Except on the "didn't actually get a vasectomy" and "didn't pull out in time" thread we learn how entrapment is abuse.  But like many things in life, I guess it's only abuse if men do it.

His stupidity in trusting his partner (lesson men: never trust women -- if you do, they'll just call you stupid later for doing so) does not justify her abuse.[/quote]

If you can't trust a person you probably shouldn't have sex with them. You sound like someone who will be happier with a blow up doll you can abuse to your heart's content[/quote]

STFU u dumb puta. I guess you don't get it. The whole point is that there can be major consequences to trusting a person, which is sad but true. [/quote]

A blow up doll can't get pregnant. Really, if you don't want to deal with your own BC - a blow up doll is the way to go. Get one.[/quote]

You'd be singing a different tune if the topic was about men who remove their condoms during sex without warning. [/quote]

Well, I wouldn't be sleeping with a guy who would do that, first off.

Regardless, if you do not want to get pregnant, you take charge of your own BC.  That goes for both men and women.  Double coverage.

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In your first sentence you demonstrate a nice superiority bias ("bad things happen to other people because they brought it on themselves, but not me!"). Unless you are a mind-reader, you can never be sure what someone else is thinking, even those "good guys" that you picked out using your superior insight (according to you).

You then proceed to blame the victims, which is easier to do since you've already decided that they brought their misfortune on themselves.

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Uh, if it would absolutely be a horrible idea for you to have a baby with the person you are having sex with - you use protection yourself.  If you are putting the responsibility into someone else's hands, you will need to live with the consequences of that choice.  A woman who lies about being on BCP or a man who would deliberately remove a condom during sex are bad news.  Women do have a choice to terminate an unintended pregnancy or choose adoption even if that is not a choice that they would ever want to make.   The man has no say in the matter- unless the woman allows him to help make the decision.  Of course, a woman who intentionally LIES like that is probably not the type to allow the man any say....

Be responsible for yourself.[/quote]

You are being willfully obtuse. People often have sex with people with whom they are not prepared to have children, but that's not same as "it would absolutely be a horrible idea." Maybe they are early in the dating process, maybe they like each other, but don't plan to get married. Life isn't so black and white. [/quote]

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