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[quote=Anonymous]Children absolutely have a right to know if one of their parents cheated and caused the destruction of their family.

A family and a person is a sick as their secrets.

That doesn't mean the non cheating spouse should constantly harp on the cheater to their kids for the rest of their lives.

Cheaters don't get to selfishly ruin the lives of their family and then pretend it didn't happen.

Cheaters LOVE to put their emotional and sexual needs before their kids- and avoid consequences and responsibility.

If you don't want your kids to know you are a cheater: don't cheat.

If your spouse murdered another human and was sentenced to life in prison, would you lie to your kids and make up a reason why they were gone? No. No matter how painful, you'd have to be honest.

Kids are ultra pissed when they find out they have been lied to about things that affect their childhood and lives.

The cheater and the apologists here want secrets to be kept within a family because it's hurtful.

No, what's hurtful is for a parent to selfishly put their needs before their family and then everyone to pretend it never happened.[/quote]

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