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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I got completely blasted when I previously posted about this on DCUM, but here goes ...

I pursued my ex- fiancé. I made the first move, I nudged toward escalating the relationship, etc. In hindsight, I see that he was flattered and swept up in the attention of someone who checked many desirable boxes - attractive, fun to be around, decent job and career prospects, family oriented. (I dared to say I was pretty on DCUM. What a bitch, I know). Anyway, it was a disaster. Despite some superficial compatibility and shared interests, we were completely unsuited for a life together and things imploded spectacularly. Deep down, I think he just didn't LIKE me, but I had desirable qualities.

When a man is interested, from my observations of my male and female friends' relationships and my successful marriage to my now-husband, he will do everything in his power to make it happen. When you pursue a man, you run the risk of him going along because you're the best option at the time.[/quote]

How many of these relationships where the guy pursued the girl fail or end in divorce??

Who asked who is NOT a determinant of whether a marriage lasts.[/quote]

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