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[quote=Anonymous]No big deal. It's not like he was hiding $300k in debt. He obviously had a separate financial life before you and didn't merge this part of it. My guess is that he wants to keep that money safe, make his own decisions about it, and doesn't trust you with spending or managing it. Only he knows why and asking an anonymous internet message board will not give you the answer. I consider your post a vent, and that you are upset and feel unvalued in the relationship. Talk to him to figure it out. My opinion is that since your family is getting by with current income, he didn't feel like blowing all the money that he has saved...just because it was sitting there. You'll thank him when you are planning to retire and send your kids to college.[/quote]
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