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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1. You could have said no then.  You chose to do it.

2.  You can say no now.  What is the problem?  [/quote]

Well, I love my husband.  Somebody had to do right by him.

I know I can say no.  But my kids actually like their cousins and they are not old enough to hear the whole story.[/quote]

So it was YOUR CHOICE to pay his debts.  Seriously, get over the martyrdom.  They did not hold a gun to your head.  You knew he had college debt.  What in the world this has to do with your immigration status or how little money your parents had is beyond me.  If you didn't want a man who came with college loans and who was unable to pay them himself, then you should have married someone else with better grades (your words, not sure if grades really had anything to do with it), was richer, or had parents that are of your background who sees eye to eye culturally with you.  You chose not to.  How is this their fault?[/quote]

It's not. But OP likes being a victim.  Probably why she won't go to therapy or do anything about it.  [/quote]

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