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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The only thing that doesn't cause damage is a perfect family. All other situations are damaging . Even a perfect family puts the child in a bad situation if his/her own family isn't perfect too. If the parents are unhappy it manifests in damaging ways. The deal with divorce is that the divorcing parents need to bend over backwards to shield their children from uncertainty and inconvenience. That is an achievable situation when it is a priority.[/quote] I agree with this. I am going through divorce with 3 children and I left my husband because the marriage was extremely toxic. Now I look at their innocent faces and I feel so shitty that I did not give them the happy home they deserve. I guess I should have never married him and have kids but I was very young and the magnitude of his problems was not apparent then. I am going to give everything to raise them to the best of my abilities, I owe them at least that much.[/quote]
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