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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know if I'd out him, either. It's his cheating that's reprehensible, not who he cheated with. [/quote] Agree, but it's worse that it was with a man. Definitely tells friends and family if it will make you feel better. [/quote] Why is that worse? Because being gay is a worse sin than adultry? [/quote] No, because he lied to his spouse about his sexuality and took away her right to make informed decisions about her life and sexuality for 30 years!!!! This is such an intimate betrayal and adds another very hurtful layer to the cheating. He lied about who he was in a fundamental way for 3 decades and stole that time from her. I don't understand how you don't see that. What if you were gay and you were in love with someone and you married them. Then you find out years later that it was just an experimental phase for your partner and they've been sleeping with their opposite sex "friend" the whole time you were together. Wouldn't you feel like your whole relationship was a lie? [/quote]
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