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[quote=Anonymous]wow, OP, I would be incensed and very concerned. Yes, it is possible that work became toxic and it was better to quit without a job, but it is NOT OKAY to do it  unilaterally! No way! Especially if she is having a hard time, she needs to communicate, you need to brainstorm a transition.  I really do wonder, like some of the other posters, if there is something else going on that she refuses to disclose. If not, wow, she is incredibly selfish and acting like a single person, not married and parent.

fwiw, DH went through a horrible period at a job about 6 years ago. He was miserable, it was abusive, and there were times that I wondered if he should just quit for his own mental health. But he was conscious of sticking it out until he got a new job, talked to me, and we worked through it. Now, i'm in a similar position--dislike my job, feel demoralized, etc, But I can't just quit. So we are working on plans about next steps as I look for a new job. If DH did something like your wife did, I would really seriously wonder about what else he was hiding. [/quote]

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