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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So the consensus on dcum is stay together even if it makes you miserable and you fight all the time? Ridiculous!!! My parents got divorced when u was in my teens. When I look back I don't feel sad or upset because they divorced. I feel sad and upset that my mother stayed so long in a marriage where a man verbally and emotionally abused her. I have my relationship issues but let me tell you, those kids that have both parents married can still have issues and still be as emotionally unstable as divorced kids. [/quote] Projecting! No, she is not being abused, she says he's a good father, and the only reson she gives is different emotional needs. Pp, for all you know, she's having an emotional crisis that has nothing to do with the marriage. Maybe she tries to manipulate hubby with emotional demands and he's not going to be controlled by manipulation. Who knows. Certainly not you. In any event, folks are not supportive because she has articulated zero good reasons to traumatize her kids for years to come. In fact, she would be cutting them off from a man who she admits is a good father. Pp, that is not your situation, so keep the scenarios separate.[/quote]
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