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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The posters who blame parents for everything, generally they are the parents of a 5 or under who just happens to be very compliant, but they swear it's down to them and doing everything right as a parent.[/quote]

This, and also one of my least favorite people in real life. Just people who assume that if someone is struggling with something, it must be because they are incompetent, and never because the thing they are struggling with is hard. And on DCUM, so often these posters are smug about stuff that 99% of parents struggle with. Like if I text my mom group about potty training, almost every single person in the group can commiserate with the challenge. But when I read potty training posts on DCUM, you'd think that 90% of children potty train with no issues by 2.5 and that just some small minority of terrible parents run into problems. But the reverse is actually true.[/quote]

The smug parents here are astonishing. When things go right with my kids, I figure it happened in spite of my parenting and breathe a sigh of relief. I can't imagine being so smug that you think you have parenting all figured out.

[b]A related, but slightly different addition to this list is a particular poster who believes that teen depression and suicidal ideation is nonsense that no parent should put up with[/b]. [/quote]

It's probably the  same ahole who is blaming Evan Rache; Wood's parents for her being a victim of  abuse, they seriously think because to date their young adult children have not been abusive relationship ( to their knowledge) has to do with her parenting.. I sincerely hope these people never have to be confronted with the truth of how wrong they are.[/quote]

As a parent I believe that her parents were not doing a good job as parents.  They watched it happen and did not step in.  It was not a one-and-done event, it occurred over YEARS!!!  Yes, they should have done more.  Why on earth are you defending them?[/quote]

1) We have no idea what they did or did not do. 2) You cannot "step in" to a relationship between two adults. You just can't. Often if you do, you become the enemy to the person who you are trying to save, driving them closer and closer to the abuser and isolating them further. [/quote]

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