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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dramatic much? I have been having an affair for seven years with a guy who is open about the fact his marriage is pretty good, other than the infrequent, low passion sex. He never even said he doesn't get sex from his wife.  Neither of us want to leave our spouses in general, and we do not want to be married to each other. We both find the sex and friendship worthwhile and gives us somethings we don't get in our marriages. We have five kids between us. I don't see how it would be better to be transparent and blow up two families than to continue seeing each other. We haven't seen each other since early March, so it's not like we can't live without each other.[/quote]

Your spouses would be having passionate sex if they were having affairs too.  It's the nature of affairs.  Do you not understand that?

Long-term marriages NEED WORK.  They need time and investment.  If they go stale over time, you don't bail and screw somebody else.  See a therapist, INVEST THE TIME AND GO TO THE HOTELS IN THE MIDDLE OF THE DAY WITH YOUR SPOUSE--not some other MARRIED PERSON.

And, yes, those five kids will not take it when they find out their mother and father are screwing other people behind their beloved parent's back.

You are selfish. Completely.[/quote]

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