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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All I'm seeing on this thread is how women have to give, give, give. Some of the posts are bordering misogyny.

What are the men doing differently when the kids are young? What are they sacrificing? What additional "work" are they voluntarily putting into the care of children? Have the men actually initiated on a daily basis to pick up the labor that goes into maintaining th e household? Do your wives have to remind you what needs to be done for the kids and house, or are you an equal enough partnerto do these on your own initiative? [/quote]

"Give Give Give" reallly? pp? It's just sex for crying out loud.  Not donating a kidney. [/quote]

You [b]should want[/b] to have sex with your spouse.  I am a woman who did 90% of the childrearing and household management, plus work outside the home longer hours than my H.  I still wanted sex with him. If you don't, divorce him and let him find a true romantic partner.[/quote]

I should also want to work out 6 times a week and donate half my money to the needy but I don't want to. That's not the phrasing you're looking for pp. It's you SHOULD just fucking do it, like all the other million things you don't want to do but do anyway because it keeps life moving. I'm a woman, with kids, my libido is shot, I'm tired and DH doesn't rouse my loins the way he use to. But I still have sex with him, just like I still wake up in the morning, feed the kids, go to work, come home and clean, rinse and repeat the next day.

Add it to the list of chores ladies, fake some enthusiasm and do it. Your DH doesn't know the difference and many don't even care. DH gets an extra spring in his step and like the simple puppy that he is, contributes more manpower to the household labor. May even suprise me with flowers or a foot massage. The kids see Mom and Dad getting along, their homelife still intact and are content.  A little sex goes a long way. It keeps  the peace, keeps a smile on everyone's faces and keeps life moving. At least in my household anyway.  It's a little tiny "sacrifice".[/quote]

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