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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All I'm seeing on this thread is how women have to give, give, give. Some of the posts are bordering misogyny.

What are the men doing differently when the kids are young? What are they sacrificing? What additional "work" are they voluntarily putting into the care of children? Have the men actually initiated on a daily basis to pick up the labor that goes into maintaining th e household? Do your wives have to remind you what needs to be done for the kids and house, or are you an equal enough partnerto do these on your own initiative? [/quote]

"Give Give Give" reallly? pp? It's just sex for crying out loud.  Not donating a kidney. [/quote]

Seriously. Not having sex because of a medical condition where sex is painful or impossible is understandable. Not having sex because you're overall ambivalent and would rather be asleep at 9:30 vs 9:50 is just self-sabotage. It will make your spouse happy, it is not torture, it is sex, so yes, you get something out of too, and it's just such a small "sacrifice." I really can't imagine being willing to put my marriage in jeopardy because I couldn't just "suck it up" and have sex for 20 minutes a couple times a week. [/quote]

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