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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]wife is part of the family. if she is too self centered and selfish to help a bit I would hope that at some point she does not require help of some kind similar.  ( the relationship would change for sure if she were my wife....)[/quote]

And what if your family was too self centered to help when your wife needed it. Would you then also agree that they hopefully don't require help at some point. [/quote]

My own IL's didn't help with childcare and whatnot.  That doesn't mean that I get to be a cold heartless biotch if something horrible happens to them.  Good grief.[/quote]

It's not actually about childcare. Did you not read that the family did not help ops wife when she went through a rough pregnancy and had a bad post partum. It seems the family haven't helped her out during a time of need however posters are outraged that the wife won't help them. It's not about childcare. The family didn't step up however it looks like the ops wife is stepping up and resolving issues. It seems like the SIL isn't.

She isn't a heartless biotch. She didn't want her kids in childcare for more hours. She has said she will help FIL on the weekends. She is looking out for her kids who should come before all of them. [/quote]

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