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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here - at what $$$ value WOULD you litigate?  I see all these comments thrown out here like “it’s not worth it for under $10 million”. But personally, what would be worth litigating to you?

My narcissistic ex is difficult to mediate with because of his personality disorder and the associated issues. Mediation might cost me $1-3 million dollars (before legal fees). So what’s the actual line?

Not trying to hijack the thread, but this seems relevant for OP too.
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This is a really good question and why this issue is much more complicated than “litigate v mediate.” At a certain point getting efficiently before a judge might save time and money vs endless mediation and settlement attempts.

I attempted to go a more non-adversarial route at first and it did nothing but cause stress and waste money because my ex is not reasonable or consistent at all and was just triggered by my reasonable requests. Would fight over the stupidest stuff but just accept the big stuff that I asked for. Would have temper tantrums when I wasn’t doing exactly what he wanted.

I never want to actually go to court, but we definitely would have saved time or money if I just had a lawyer write up a settlement and send it to his lawyer. [/quote]

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