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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No offense, but what's your plan?   You're obviously resentful and irritated which is completely understandable.  But are you going to do anything about it or just continue to live this way? [/quote]

I can’t do anything about him. He’s shown that he doesn’t give a s—t. I guess it leaves me with the choice of do everything and not complain, or make the choice to leave.

It’s hard to entertain the latter because I’d be disrupting my kids’ lives and my financial future for what would appear to be no good reason. I’d never go around telling people I left DH because he was lazy and selfish about his time. Wish I could.[/quote]

You have a third choice: Not do everything and be okay with the mess. So everything isn’t ready for MIL when she arrives? Your husband can stay up and set the room up. Or be responsible for meals. Or whatever.

The problem is that you’re more concerned with appearances. You’re not willing to let others sit in some discomfort, so you attempt to control it all. You tell yourself that it’s okay because you don’t want others like your MIL or your kids to suffer and be put out. But this is really about you. Start by acknowledging that you even have this choice to drop the rope. [/quote]

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