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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everyone wants mommy--the kids and DH. I am so "touched out" at the end of the day, the last thing I want is to be touched more. The kids need me;DH wants me. Right now, needs take over wants. [/quote]

Nope. Big distinction here. Your kids want mommy. Your DH wants his WIFE. [/quote]

Given that mommy and wife inhabit the same body, it makes no difference to the woman. The man, of course, would like for his spouse to be everything without being especially understanding of the fact that with a young infant, maternal identity is (as it should) come first. This changes over time, but he needs to be patient.

I also agree with the PP that so many posters here seem to dismiss a breast-feeding woman's lack of desire as primarily psychological, rather that primarily physical/medical in nature.

My DH has put on about 20 lbs since we've been married and his "performance" is not quite as good as it used to be. Does this mean that I have a right get angry with him for not meeting my sexual demands? [/quote]

If you live th elife like you post, then DH isn't getting any either so I get him  gaining 20lbs and not performing anymore.  Afterall, the kids come first. His needs are secondary right? [/quote]

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