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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here

I also started this thread supporting all pregnancy termination options

I terminated a pregnancy in the early 90s

I went on to have lots of kids, some adopted

I supported my son’s idea of termination of a pregnancy

She gave birth possibly full term less than a week later

Like y’all cool down, I am not the devil, no one’s the devil, I’m not making this up, I am living in this weird insanity that apparently exists in only staying silent to everyone in my life except this forum[/quote]

Glad you’re back, OP. Any developments?  Two weeks is a long time for your son to be in freeze mode about this baby.  Is he claiming that if the baby is full term, it is not his?  I hope you get to see your grandson soon.[/quote]

OP here. It's OK. I have not heard from my son (the baby's father) but he is talking to his brother who has since flown home to Europe.

This is a VERY GOOD sign in that they were formerly super rivals as brothers and suddenly older brother is taking the reins and seriously helping everyone out. Shoveling snow. They were once again sitting and playing games together.

They have completely come together on this whole situation and I am the one sort of left out, but under these circumstances I am completely OK with this development. How could I not be?

No one - definitely not me - has met the baby yet. Though I have ordered an extra pack n play and some diapers and formula here to this house, plus the extra car seat she did not end up using. It's cool.

Older brother is back in the country he lives in with his wife. They are very sad because they want a child desperately but cannot immigrate to the US because this administration says she was born in an undesirable country. When I was talking to them about just the paperwork I helped my son's gf with about getting a US SSN they started tearing up because all I had to do was provide some numbers and it was a done deal. And they will currently have to spend years outside of the US even though I could straight up give them my entire home today ... and yet my DIL is undesirable.

She said to me today "I wish I could hold my American nephew right now I would care for him every hour of every day" but somehow right now the US is just like FU to her when she's never done anything wrong to anyone.

I sent her a check for 1K through my bank account as I have added her to the payee list. I don't think child support will have kicked in yet and I think that's modest for a very very very new mom

Anyway, Kevin is doing fine. My son has apparently been going over there many times per week. He's not sharing any of this with me but his older brother overseas has been, on the DL.

He says "my brother has been handling this with aplomb"

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