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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]One person just needs to take the lead and delegate. When the email comes out about donating to the teachers you can't have both people jump at it, you will duplicate efforts. [/b]If you want your husbands to manage everything and bark out orders about what tasks are assigned to you, I'm guessing you would be complaining about that too. [/quote]

People have actually said the contrary many times. Our school sends emails to both of us. Whoever happens to get to the email first and can do something about it will let the other one know "hey, I signed the form for the field trip next week." Where is the duplication of efforts there? Delegating actually requires both of us to read the email - the first one to find out what is needed and to delegate the task and then the second to also find out what is needed. Sometimes one of us is busier than the other so whoever has the free time at that moment handles the task. I don't know why you're making that out to be so difficult. [/quote]

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