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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hey OP - I don't mind answering at all - once I am in the midst of things I am totally enjoying myself - [b]the act is always very satisfying and leads me wondering why we don't do it more often [/b];). The issue is the actual getting into the act - I think about all the things I could be doing making food / dealing with my child / cleaning up / even just sleeping rather than having sex and it automatically stresses me out and makes me tired. As I said in my previous post, this has nothing to do with my hubby helping or not helping out around the house. It has everything to do with the fact that I take on a lot of stress and worry about everything (this has only happened recently in the past 3 years) so I don't "feel free" to just want sex (not an excuse I know). Is your wife like that? Does she stress a lot or have a lot going through her mind which may be stopping her from wanting to have more sex? I'm not saying it stress release will make her HD but might make the LD better? I'm actually looking into doing some stress relieving things like yoga etc that may help release stress and in turn help in the sex department.[/quote]

OP here.   LOL. OMG, she is totally like that.  She enjoys herself during sex which leads me to wonder why she doesn't initiate sex (more..if ever  :( )  She takes it upon herself to do too much with respect to childcare.  I joke with her that our #1 finally had a mommy AND daddy after #2 was born as oppose to a mommy and a helper.  Prior to #2 arriving, she did most all the childcare that I not realize that she had unintentionally excluded my role as a dad (almost).  Like now, I catch her trying to wash the bottles and I get annoyed with her.  I'm not sure if she feels the same stress as you but I know she's always tired (understandibly so).  But on nights when both kids are asleep at 930pm, I still get no action.  [/quote]

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