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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]New to this thread...

We moved our kid from public to a DC private high school a few years ago. We're still good friends with a few families from public but I've been pretty purposeful about never portraying private as great (as frankly it is't always)---I'm either really open about the good, bad and ugly or I don't say anything.  Almost always (99% of the time) it's the later--I keep the conversation on the 15 other things we can talk about---general kid issues, work, vacation, etc.

That said, last evening I went to a sporting game between my kid's current private high school and the public high school that they would have attended.  I saw the broader circle of people we used to know: car pool buddies, sports teams members, etc.  I was almost universally snubbed.  It was weird and uncomfortable. These are people I never once talked about private school with and in the past we always had pleasant conversations when running into each other.  It was striking. I'm kind of a sensitive person by nature and I left the evening feeling really down. (I know, I know---I don't have to be universally liked but people were cold)  The public/private divide runs deep in DC.   :cry:  [/quote]

Why are you assuming they ignored you because your kid moved to private school? They probably weren’t really your friends to begin with and forgot about you since you they didn’t see you for a few years and your kid no longer goes to the same school as theirs. Just like if you moved away, you would grow distant from many of the parents of your child’s previous school.[/quote]

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