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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. More pictures of inside the house. There is an ac in MILs room that is new. It is towards the top of the wall and has a cover over it. All the furniture has locks on them and they use keys to open everything. The property also has a series of padlocks to get out. The only entrance to the house also uses a padlock at night. There isn't a back door. There are two bathrooms. One is a full bath but no bathtub and another one is a half bath. My MIL probably thinks I am weird  for taking pictures of the house.

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Oh boy OP - I am definitely in the "make an adventure of it now and make sure you're only there for two weeks next time" but I can see why you are feeling trapped and stressed.

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I'm from India. Op's post made me realize that what is normal for me - like having keys in cupboards, locks for everything, waiting for hours for a doctor visit (this is kind of like emergency room visits in the US, but done daily) is weird for someone else not from the country. We have maids, servants, random people coming and going, so the lock thing probably started as a way to prevent theft

Her home does have a decent china cabinet, crockery, a sofa, dining table etc so they are not poor. It's just the clutter and other things that add up.

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