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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This situation scares me. I had a friend when I was single, and I always just considered him a friend. I eventually got married and moved to the East Coast but we kept in touch through Facebook. Whenever I'd post something he'd compliment me, but it always seemed to go over a boundary and made me feel uncomfortable. Then one night he sent a message, he had been drinking. He regretted that he never took that step to ask me out, and that he should have been my husband not the one I'm currently married to. I was blindsided, I had been married for many years at this point. I tried to let him down easy but he was offended that I didn't respond in kind. I didn't dare tell him that I never felt anything other than friendship. I stopped posting on Facebook, and I'm afraid to unfriend him. I think the likelihood of him coming out and doing harm is really small. But for a while I was scared. [/quote]

Something similar actually happened to me. In college I got flowers on Valentine’s Day and the card said, “hopefully someday you’ll realize we were meant to be together”. I never suspected it to be him (he was a casual friend, we’d get drinks or dessert every once in a while) and then a couple of years later he got drunk and started AOL instant messaging me. Obviously, freaky!!!! He ended up committing suicide a few years down the road and while I’m sad that was the outcome it does bring a sigh of relief. [/quote]

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