Anonymous
07/01/2022 09:34
Subject: Fairfax homicide last night
Anonymous
07/01/2022 09:31
Subject: Re:Fairfax homicide last night
Anonymous wrote:Who leaves back door unlocked in middle of the night? Yes, I live in Fairfax and know area well.
If you have kids that go out into the back to play, chances are it'll be left unlocked at times. Especially if someone isn't diligent about checking it at night.
Anonymous
07/01/2022 09:31
Subject: Re:Fairfax homicide last night
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Affair?
Reminds me of the Queens murder. Only this time killed the spouse not the lover.
+1
Anonymous
07/01/2022 08:19
Subject: Re:Fairfax homicide last night
Anonymous wrote:This situation scares me. I had a friend when I was single, and I always just considered him a friend. I eventually got married and moved to the East Coast but we kept in touch through Facebook. Whenever I'd post something he'd compliment me, but it always seemed to go over a boundary and made me feel uncomfortable. Then one night he sent a message, he had been drinking. He regretted that he never took that step to ask me out, and that he should have been my husband not the one I'm currently married to. I was blindsided, I had been married for many years at this point. I tried to let him down easy but he was offended that I didn't respond in kind. I didn't dare tell him that I never felt anything other than friendship. I stopped posting on Facebook, and I'm afraid to unfriend him. I think the likelihood of him coming out and doing harm is really small. But for a while I was scared.
Something similar actually happened to me. In college I got flowers on Valentine’s Day and the card said, “hopefully someday you’ll realize we were meant to be together”. I never suspected it to be him (he was a casual friend, we’d get drinks or dessert every once in a while) and then a couple of years later he got drunk and started AOL instant messaging me. Obviously, freaky!!!! He ended up committing suicide a few years down the road and while I’m sad that was the outcome it does bring a sigh of relief.
Anonymous
07/01/2022 08:02
Subject: Re:Fairfax homicide last night
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Was it a happy marriage?
Trying to be objective here — who opened back door?
Or the real question, how did he know it would be open/unlocked?
Yes!!!!! I just thought of this after posting. Unless he entered during normal daylight/evening hours when the family was going in and out of house and hid somewhere in their home?
I watch too many crime dramas.
Back to accusing the wife. Surprised the husband is not a suspect to you people.
Some of us are looking at this case as crime investigators. You think investigators aren’t asking these same questions? Who leaves back door open in this day and age? In urban area off busy road. It’s not personal.
You, a crime investigator? You are as delusional as the murderer.
Many people find discussing things like this interesting, and frankly many local police are not scouted for their critical thinking skills. I’m not saying that to be rude to, i value them - it’s a most important job, but it is interesting to hear perspectives from people with different backgrounds thinking about a situation differently.
Anonymous
07/01/2022 06:40
Subject: Re:Fairfax homicide last night
Everyone forgets to lock a door now and then.
Anonymous
07/01/2022 04:24
Subject: Re:Fairfax homicide last night
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Who leaves back door unlocked in middle of the night? Yes, I live in Fairfax and know area well.
What are you insinuating? I live in DC and forgot to lock my front and back doors many times.
My husband locks all of our doors every night. He is diligent about it and I don’t double check them. If he forgot or missed one, it wouldn’t get locked. Doesn’t mean it was intentional.
I now plan to being more tuned into door locking.
Anonymous
07/01/2022 03:38
Subject: Re:Fairfax homicide last night
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Was it a happy marriage?
Trying to be objective here — who opened back door?
Or the real question, how did he know it would be open/unlocked?
Yes!!!!! I just thought of this after posting. Unless he entered during normal daylight/evening hours when the family was going in and out of house and hid somewhere in their home?
I watch too many crime dramas.
Back to accusing the wife. Surprised the husband is not a suspect to you people.
Some of us are looking at this case as crime investigators. You think investigators aren’t asking these same questions? Who leaves back door open in this day and age? In urban area off busy road. It’s not personal.
You, a crime investigator? You are as delusional as the murderer.
The poster obviously didn’t mean that they were a crime investigator, just wanted to look at case objectively as there are probably friends and family on this discussion thread who are rightfully emotional about the case. I, too, wonder about unlocked door especially if their bedroom was on ground floor.
Anonymous
07/01/2022 02:39
Subject: Re:Fairfax homicide last night
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Was it a happy marriage?
Trying to be objective here — who opened back door?
Or the real question, how did he know it would be open/unlocked?
Yes!!!!! I just thought of this after posting. Unless he entered during normal daylight/evening hours when the family was going in and out of house and hid somewhere in their home?
I watch too many crime dramas.
Back to accusing the wife. Surprised the husband is not a suspect to you people.
Some of us are looking at this case as crime investigators. You think investigators aren’t asking these same questions? Who leaves back door open in this day and age? In urban area off busy road. It’s not personal.
You, a crime investigator? You are as delusional as the murderer.
I had the same thought. That sentence was CRAZY. Talk about delusional.
Anonymous
07/01/2022 01:25
Subject: Fairfax homicide last night
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am still a bit confused that she did not recognize him? And that she hid in a downstairs bathroom rather than going up to the floor where the very young children were sleeping?
There was a statement made to a reporter that he was delusional and that the relationship only existed in his head, said to be someone close to family as source. But,court docs seemed to indicate either dated or ex-boyfriend?
No great way to handle unsafe people, it was said that he reached out repeatedly. And that he also went to their church. They were very involved, so, not easy to walk away. I can't imagine going to the funeral with memories of the killer in the same building.
I hope she has access to really good trauma counseling. What a nightmare and a tragedy.
He probably had on a hat/mask. Ever watched a crime drama?
Also it was dark, she was in a dead sleep and probably incredibly disoriented
And ended up in downstairs bathroom?
Which room was the correct room for her?
Anonymous
07/01/2022 01:24
Subject: Fairfax homicide last night
It has been explained that the master bedroom is on the first floor. Bathrooms have doors that lock.
Anonymous
07/01/2022 01:23
Subject: Fairfax homicide last night
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am still a bit confused that she did not recognize him? And that she hid in a downstairs bathroom rather than going up to the floor where the very young children were sleeping?
There was a statement made to a reporter that he was delusional and that the relationship only existed in his head, said to be someone close to family as source. But,court docs seemed to indicate either dated or ex-boyfriend?
No great way to handle unsafe people, it was said that he reached out repeatedly. And that he also went to their church. They were very involved, so, not easy to walk away. I can't imagine going to the funeral with memories of the killer in the same building.
I hope she has access to really good trauma counseling. What a nightmare and a tragedy.
He probably had on a hat/mask. Ever watched a crime drama?
Which room was the correct room for her?
Also it was dark, she was in a dead sleep and probably incredibly disoriented
And ended up in downstairs bathroom?
Anonymous
07/01/2022 01:21
Subject: Re:Fairfax homicide last night
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Was it a happy marriage?
Trying to be objective here — who opened back door?
Or the real question, how did he know it would be open/unlocked?
Yes!!!!! I just thought of this after posting. Unless he entered during normal daylight/evening hours when the family was going in and out of house and hid somewhere in their home?
I watch too many crime dramas.
Back to accusing the wife. Surprised the husband is not a suspect to you people.
Some of us are looking at this case as crime investigators. You think investigators aren’t asking these same questions? Who leaves back door open in this day and age? In urban area off busy road. It’s not personal.
You, a crime investigator? You are as delusional as the murderer.
Anonymous
07/01/2022 01:19
Subject: Re:Fairfax homicide last night
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Was it a happy marriage?
Trying to be objective here — who opened back door?
Or the real question, how did he know it would be open/unlocked?
Stalker, just like the two of you.
Anonymous
07/01/2022 01:18
Subject: Re:Fairfax homicide last night
Anonymous wrote:Who leaves back door unlocked in middle of the night? Yes, I live in Fairfax and know area well.
What are you insinuating? I live in DC and forgot to lock my front and back doors many times.