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I have listened to everything everyone has said. And perhaps I am close mooning too many issues. To clarify:

1) He is an on and off again boyfriend and according to my mother, she hadn't spoken to him in over a month prior to this Monday. They have been together on and off over the past 15 years. They have lived together, then seperated on at least 3  occasions. Currently they live separately. In my opinion my mom has been desperately trying to get this man to love her and this is just attempt for her to get his attention.

2) Both of my children are in school. I don't need an additional sitter. I wanted my mom to be with them at nights and on the weekend. With her gone I will just make things work by splitting the days with my husband. I have already lined up a sitter for this Friday when the kids are out of school.

3) Yes I do think that she has put him before me a lot. Including but not limited to letting him use one of my credit cards that was sent to her house without my permission. She paid it off eventually but that is beside the point.

4) I bring up the Christmas thing because it's right around the corner. . And frankly I just can't bring myself to make this sacrifice anymore just to make her happy, when clearly her loyalty to him means more than me and my family. However I don't want to make this decision out of spite if you guys are saying I should be more understanding.[/quote]

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