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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]UGH!
Why don't you like him? Can you give some examples?
Agree that you tell him to come close in time to sitting down to eat, and have your family and friends come a little earlier.

The choice is between (A) guilt at disinviting him or (B) dealing with him at your holiday meal. Is there anyone else coming who might hit it off with him?[/quote]
OP - Since you've asked - your stereotypical Trump supporter, he's really not respectful to women. I have some pretty leftist attendees.  The more I Think about it, I think he may just be joking.  I will see him next week so in case he's not, I will extend the welcome only if he asks. Nobody will hit if off with him, I'm certain about that. I may do what a pp suggested about asking him to check his xyz behavior at the door.[/quote]

The problem with doing what you say is that he might just be waiting for you to bring it up again, and so since you're not going to, he  could end up alone on Thanksgiving feeling rejected.

It's better that you be proactive.  Either politely Uninvite him or tell him about details of when and where for the invite.  He needs time to find something else if you uninvited.[/quote]

I don't know, if he had the balls to invite himself to another person's Thanksgiving dinner and follow up immediately with a "What should I bring?" I think he can it from here on.[/quote]

*think he can handle it[/quote]

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