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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DW here.  I was headed in this direction though not as far down the road and what helped what more attention and proactive energy from DH.  I would say it's probably already an EA and danger of physical affair is high if he's attractive.  Has DW improved her appearance or grooming?  I definitely did that.[/quote]

Here you have it OP, women suffer from shiny object syndrome.  As soon as they're bir d with you their ready to cheat, bite the rationalization they will put forward
"Made me feel like a woman again"
"Noticed stuff DH didn't"

The hamster wheel is already spinning the moment the EA is occurring.  She's attempting to rationalize her behavior and bad decisions and not take responsibility for her actions.  It was DHs fault..he needed to lay me more attention..blah blah.  Because working in what's lacking in the marriage is too hard.

Like I posted earlier OP, if she's going to cheat to can't stop it.  She'll make up a bullshit reason and you'll be left wondering what went wrong.  Tell her now that the relationship is not appropriate and you don't like her talking about him and messaging him all the time when you're with her.  But the hammer down now or realize it's only a matter of weeks if not days before they're both naked and she's being pleasures by him in ways that should be reserved for you.  Don't be the guy who is posting back here hurt and broken because she cheated.  If she did or does - the only option is to leave in my opinion.  There is no way you stay with someone that shows you the ultimate disrespect and betrayal [/quote]

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