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Reply to "If you were 39, would you have a baby even if you weren't married?"
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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like your friend and this man need to have an actual conversation. He talks about a baby and seems like he would marry her if she got pregnant? What? They sound like they are in highschool. I by no means think you have to be married to have kids, but I think it should be a conscious decision. I know several couples, including my next door neighbors, who are in happy, committed relationships with several kids and are not married. But your friend wants an expensive vacation and a ring? If she really wants kids and is willing to risk it with this guy she barely knows, then fine. I might have done the same thing if I hadn't met my husband. But she needs to talk to him about it. Having kids together is a life time commitment, and if only one of them is ready for that, then they need to wait. [/quote]
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