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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, and I spent the last 20 minutes writing an email to my step-MIL, outlining the seriousness of my issues with my mother in an effort to get her to understand why I have these boundaries in place, and why it is important that I maintain them. It was cathartic to write it... but should I bother sending it? It's a kind and respectful email, FWIW. [/quote] Why do you feel the need to obtain her approval?[/quote] I felt really judged after her talk with me at our lunch, and like she did not get the seriousness of the issues I have with my mom, and thus probably figured I was holding some sort of unnecessary grudge.[/quote] If your step mom will be around your mom's husband and any kids, tell her what happenedand that he shouldn't be alone with kids. If she won't respect your rules then step mom doesn't get to be alone with your kids either.[/quote]
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