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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If DW were to stop putting energy into our sex life I'd stop putting energy into our relationship.

I'd start doing more things on my own. [/quote]

If my spouse gives me a crappy gift.
If I want 1 more kid and my spouse doesn't
If I do all the housework
If I make all the money
If they don't make enough money
If they spend too much money
If they get fat
If they .....

this can go on forever... you can make up any excuse in the world to not want to "put energy into the relationship" but it's just an excuse and a way to blame others for your own actions/inactions.[/quote]

flip the equation around and you get the same answer: a DW, who doesn't want to have sex or put the energy into the marriage to ensure sex and intimacy are an equilibrium, can come up with a myriad of excuses and hoops for a DH to jump through (i.e., moving goal posts) to shift the blame to him.

if my DH would understand me better 
if my DH would do more chores
if only my DH made more money...
if my DH would eat better
if my DH would work out more
if my DH....[/quote]

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