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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The sex is only good for me when the intimacy is high. Don't get me wrong, the sex is important, but it SUCKS when intimacy is missing with my husband. I think for both of us.[/quote]

+100[/quote]

curious (and I posted about this recently) if it has always been this way?  did you have the strong emotional connection with past lovers too?  part of me thinks that when DWs say they need a strong emotional connection in order to have sex is a way to mask a lower drive than their DHs.[/quote]

Not PP but I think for me... i need intimacy to have sex with the same person over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over... again.

But 1 night stands and kick them out ... no intimacy needed... but get your a$$ out of here, really, before the sun comes up please. out... out... out.[/quote]

ok, ONS aside, how about past BFs?  Especially if you dated a jerk or narcissist who treated you poorly.[/quote]

i only had 1 jerk boyfriend, he was nice for 6 months, mean for 2, dumped him over the phone... pre-texting.

I had a friends with benefits, in college to fill in the gaps, and I banged my roommate for about 3 months before the lease was up.

Both relationships were monogamous when we were banging. I am never the OW and I don't need some psycho chick getting all dramatic with me.

None of them just treated me badly because I was not in the mood. if they did I would have dumped their benefits without a second thought. Sorry I am being a jerk but it has been 2 weeks so you reap what you sow. Really? WTF!

I laugh when people say their spouse has turned into a roommate... I think... that sound good to me. [/quote]

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