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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Blah blah blah, women can dress how they want. How you dress is an expression of how you want the world to see you and how you see yourself.

That said, if you dress like a porn star all the time or most of the time, you send a message that you view yourself primarily as a sex object and have a pathological need for attention, even if it is negative. Dressing in a revealing fashion doesn't make you confident or feminist.  You are, in fact, completely caving to a backward, anti-female idea of what is sexy.  [/quote]

Why can't she just wear what she enjoys without it being a damning diagnosis of a character flaw?

Women can be really hard on each other.[/quote]

Women are hard on each other, but we're not talking about one woman telling another capri pants are frumpy.  Dressing in revealing clothing all the time does say something about a person and it aint good.[/quote]

It's not just women that are hard on each other. Men make the same judgement about a woman. I think the friend is just caring about how her friend dresses because she knows guys AND girls are seeing her friend as a slut. I like to dress sexy and cute and put up sexy pictures of me in a short skirt on a date site and also put up that i'm waiting for marriage. Guys were absolutely cruel to me and even reported my sexy but not revealing pictures and they were taken down. They said I contradicted myself and shouldn't dress or put up sexy pictures (pictures of me in a miniskirt!). I was even going to put up a skin pic but whatever. I am not even american white (western women have that reputation of being party, drunken, sluts by American media and society) but I was still judged the same![/quote]

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