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[quote=Anonymous]I'm assuming the other thread is a spinoff to this one.

No, OP, you don't lose control of your body when you get married.  Your husband was wrong to say that.

That said, I do think that sex is part of a healthy marriage.  This is exactly why I think it's a bad idea to wait until you get married to have sex because you never really establish if you are well matched in that regard.

It's possible that you aren't really attracted to your husband, but you assume you don't like sex because you've never experienced it with another man.

It's also possible that you aren't interested in sex.  And that's fine, too.

But the bottom line is that it is implied when you get married that sex will be part of the relationship, and that's why you pledge fidelity.

If you are uninterested in sex, that is totally fine, but you shouldn't expect your husband to live a life of celibacy.   Perhaps you can agree to an open marriage.  Or perhaps divorce is an option, especially if you don't have children yet.

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