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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mine's just not very good in bed. Like most men, he's too insecure to hear what I need because he interprets it as an insult to his manhood.  The one time I said I didn't like something and asked for something else he lost his erection and then sulked. So now the tacit understanding is that it's better for him to have self esteem than for me to have pleasure, and they are mutually exclusive unless I find a way to like whatever he does.

I masturbate a lot and think about other people when I do it. When I'm with my husband I fake it weakly. Sometimes I don't fake it and then reassure him it's fine unpersuasively. I'm doing 90% of the work in bed and at home and equal work in the workplace so I feel my approach is generous enough.

At this point  I'm not interested in having an affair but I could see myself doing so if someone caught my eye. [/quote]

My husband does not want anything other PIV and does not understand the concept of foreplay or any warm up. Consequently sex hurts and is unpleasant for me.   When I try to talk to him about it he says I am frigid because his previous partner was gushing with wetness from what he calls a forplay. [/quote]

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