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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"So kind of you to send this message. It has long been water under the bridge but I really appreciate it. Hope all is well."[/quote]

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OP, this may be a simple situation of where he realized, after the fact, that he did something that he wasn't proud of.  I had a similar experience where I ran into one of my earliest girlfriends.  We ended up sleeping together, which was wonderful.  Unfortunately, her mother was on husband #2 or 3 out of what would become 4, if I remember correctly and I saw hints that he apple may not have fallen far from the tree.  I ran for the hills.  I actually chased her down, which was initially upsetting to her.  I related that she always had a special place in my heart from our earliest days together (true) and that I felt bad that in retrospect, our last encounter was not what I would have wanted it to be.  She responded that she was doing well, was married and appreciated the sentiment.

Interestingly, about a month later I got a call from her.  Things weren't going so well in her marriage and she wanted to get together.  I wished her well but indicated I was quite busy.

TL;DR He may have done this because he genuinely believes he made a mistake, outside of a 12 step program, etc.[/quote]

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