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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's another way to look at it.  Yes, my mom is a hot mess.  Yes, talking to her about all her problems brings me diwn.  Yes, it must have sucked to be married to her.  But she's my mom and I love her.  And more importantly, if my parents were married, I would have my dad's help in dealing with her and caring for her.  Instead, he chose to make things worse by cheating and leaving me to deal with her on my own.  Oh, your mom is crazy and difficult?  Good luck kiddo, you're on your own!  So with that hanging over my head, forgive me for not enjoying your vacation with your new wife who is equally psycho.  You washed your hands of my mother, but I'm not at that point yet and probably never will be.  Enjoy your vacation![/quote]

My sister doesn't live in D.C. because if she did, you are definitely my sister.  Who could never just shut off the chaos that mom brought, because my sister is a good soul who internalized our parent's divorce.  Whereas I was the jackass son that cut out everyone.  Except when I just feel so damn bad for my sister and step in to help the parental mess because she is a good soul.

Which is a good reminder, that even if you and AP act in good faith, you never know how your children will react, some take it in stride, some internalize the madness.[/quote]

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