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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I left exH for many reasons but falling for someone else definitely was the final nail in coffin. I never thought of other man as an AP, my relationship with ex H was so broken by the time we met. 
Of course my ex had always seen things differently - he refuses to believe that I didn't leave him for another man. Oh well, we all live in our own realities. 
Ten years later yes we are still together. Yes there are children involved. The kids are all happy when we are all together, they seem to be doing just fine. I do worry about their adulthood, how they will handle relationships etc. But for now they are in a good place thank god. [/quote]

That's a great phrase, "we all live in our own realities."  My relationship didn't end because of any one thing, rather it was a lot of little things that just kept building until it seems insurmountable.  Ex knew about each and every thing, but thought there were no choices and I would never leave.  Ex was wrong.  Also, ex and I split everything and ex got the house.  Had ex sold that house for something smaller and more manageable as I advised ex would be much better off financially.  That was ex's choice, not mine and quite frankly, none of my business once we were divorced.  An AP is rarely the reason for the divorce, it's just the truth.  It's about compromise and that is what makes every healthy relationship succeed, and that was always missing in my relationship with Ex, and at some point I couldn't do it anymore.[/quote]

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