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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's another way to look at it.  Yes, my mom is a hot mess.  Yes, talking to her about all her problems brings me diwn.  Yes, it must have sucked to be married to her.  But she's my mom and I love her.  And more importantly, if my parents were married, I would have my dad's help in dealing with her and caring for her.  Instead, he chose to make things worse by cheating and leaving me to deal with her on my own.  Oh, your mom is crazy and difficult?  Good luck kiddo, you're on your own!  So with that hanging over my head, forgive me for not enjoying your vacation with your new wife who is equally psycho.  You washed your hands of my mother, but I'm not at that point yet and probably never will be.  Enjoy your vacation![/quote]

Here's an idea, stop playing the martyr and get your DM a therapist so she can dump her shit on the therapist and free you up to enjoy your life and hopefully have a health productive relationship with your DM.  My DM also divorced,  and it was not easy, but she was not going to let AP ruin her kids life and she held her head high and was always, always a lady.  What an example she set for me, and when I was young and going through various relationships I always drew from my DM and how she handled herself to give myself strength.  Get your DM a therapist an stop feeling sorry for her.  It is the best thing you could do for her and yourself.  And then you can enjoy your next vacation without the worry of your DM.  Have a good day.[/quote]

Riiigh, crazy aging parents just love going to therapists.  It wouldn't solve the financial problems (also a product of divorce) nor the medical problems.  Not would it change the fact that my dad's AP is psycho.  Sorry hon but this sucks for me and no therapist could fix it.  Divorce is dumping your problems on your children.  Have a great vacation!  I'll be here, caring for my mom because it's the right thing to do.  In sickness or in health, right?[/quote]

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