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[quote=Anonymous]Op I'm sorry to hear about this. In many cultures it's common for a child to provide for elderly parents, so I get what you were trying to do. I think you took the precautions that you reasonably could to protect yourselves. At this point it sounds like the betrayal and hurt are the biggest issues. It must be hard for your DH to deal with this emotionally. All you can control are your own reactions as you clearly can't control your ILs. Are you open to therapy? Marital and perhaps individual therapy for DH might be best to learn to set boundaries. [/quote]
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