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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm so not impressed by your manner of dealing with this op and I'm fairly disgusted by the posters patting your duh on the head for being such a good widdle boy to hims mommy.

" I am not really taking away from my own family to help the ILs if that makes sense."

No,it doesn't make sense. It's absolute nonsense. Just because you think you make enough to help fund their ridiculous behavior, don't fool yourself that you aren't taking resources from your children. You are.

The fact that your ils expect this is disgusting.

You are putting these idiots ahead of your children.

If your duh became seriously ill, would they be able to help you? You know a serious illness for anyone in your nuclear family could bankrupt you?  Your ils have made sure they are in no position to help anyone else.

Also go read about the crab pot mentality of lower income familes. [/quote]
 In case you don't realize it, you sound crazy too. If OPD says what they've been doing thus far is not unduly burden event thing for you to tell them that their financial situation is something other than what they know what is? Going forward Opie is looking for help and how to address MIL's addiction consequences, not your reassessment of their budget?[/quote]

No Hon, I'm the opposite of crazy here. I'm the rational one cutting through op's layers of bs. Op, you need to think clearly about this and cut the I'm-so-sweet bullshit. Women are allowed to speak directly. PP, op has no control over her mil's problems. Grown ups realize that. Children looking for the love they never got get caught up in this enmeshed crap. [/quote]

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