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[quote=Anonymous]Jeez, listen to yourselves.  Only angry people own guns? Must be a Trump supporter?

First off, I'm a hunter and own a couple of hunting rifles, shotgun and three handguns - one of which is an heirloom my grandfather pulled off a dead Nazi in WWII.  I'm not angry, farthest thug from it.  While Indint support Trump, I know plenty who do and they're not angry either.  Alt-right twitterverse?  Do you even know what that means?  My guess, you're spouting off nonsense from the latest Hillary rant against some clowns on the Internet.

Since most of this advice hasn't been helpful, I'll offer w male perspective.

1. Is he a veteran?  I've seen this behavior with PTSD sufferers. I've seen it firsthand as people will switch personalities and sometimes it can take a little while to bubble up.  The VA's answer is to medicate these folks with what we like to call "don't give a f*ck pills".  They don't bother to get to the root of the issue, they just medicate and then medicate for the reaction you get from the first dose of medication - yay government run healthcare.  I've have friends on pills to mellow them out and then they have to take Viagra because they first medication gives them ED.  The reason I ask is from personal experience, I've seen this quite a few times with these guys and sometimes their ire is directed towards minorities or other races.  Even though they served with people of many different races, for some reason this is a scapegoat.  And this was happening before Trump got here so you can't blame him.  The only way this is fixed is through therapy.

2. If he isn't, then I'm willing to bet there is some perceived wrong against him that was perpetrated by a person of color.  Instead of seeing the person as the bad one, he's painted a broad brush against an entire race for this perceived wrongdoing and is instead blaming an entire group.  Was he assaulted or did something happen to a family member of his?  This is also a mild case of PTSD in its own right although very different.  Finding the root of the issue with a licensed therapist is really the only way to solve the issue.

Give him and ultimatum.  Seek help to see what's causing your issue or you're leaving.  And be prepared to follow through.

Of course there's a chance he's just a racist asshole.  There are people like that and few will probably ever change although it's happened.  But I don't think that's the case if this behavior is a new thing.  I've listen to Stern and he's certainly not a racist.  Crude perhaps, but most men find that humor funny to some degree, and for women who think their men never would, you're being naive.[/quote]

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