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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To be clear... she doesn't do anything for you. (Leave the no sex part out.) You are saying she does nothing for you or with you?[/quote]

No, she does some stuff with me and to some extent for me, but they are things like laundry and that kind of stuff or things that are beneficial and fun for her/family with me being part of the family.  She's not a horrible wife or a bitch or anything, but I can't really think of anything that she has done for me recently just because she knows I would like it or it would mean something to me.  Case in point is the birthday dinner.  There is nothing wrong with going out to a nice dinner, but it really had nothing to do with me or what I would have wanted, just that is a nice generic thing to do on birthdays if that makes sense.  [/quote]

She does [b]nothing [/b]for you. Continuing to be a "good husband" is the same as being a "doormat".

This has nothing to do with sex. She has checked out. Track her phone. Go to counseling. [/quote]

Thanks, I am 99.9% sure she is not getting any side action.  She just isn't sexual enough for that to be an issue plus I know she is too busy to be squeezing it in at work.  I agree I feel like a doormat.  The birthday thing feels like it lifted a huge curtain that has been there for the past few years.  It feels like I am looking at the whole situation with new eyes, which is why I am feeling awkward and depressed being around her.[/quote]

I'm the grown child of parents like you....  Your kids will sense your depression and the awkwardness.  Please believe me.  BTDT (or experienced that) [/quote]

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