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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. No divorce is not an option, aside from all the crap that comes with it like financial and custody, I will have drop offs 5 days a week. This sleeping situation is a constant battle. I am worried that once the kids leave all he will be doing is sleeping and I will be sitting there waiting for him to wake up. [/quote] I'm sorry, what? After the kids leave the house you mean? Presumably drop-offs will be over with then, so what possible reason would you have to stay married to a manchild then? Let's review: You already do most of the parenting and all of the worrying and your job is suffering. Explain how not having DH in the picture would really make your life more difficult? If he weren't around to be unreliable, you would have solid plans in place to deal with childcare. Your problem is that you are dealing with someone who can't be relied upon. If he were a sitter, you would have fired his ass long ago.[/quote]
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