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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. There's always someone who "doesn't care" how abusive a mother has been. Decent people do care. Child abuse and abuse of adult family members is not ok. Serious emotional abuse of a grandchild is not ok. If a family member treated not only you but your children badly, I hope you'd have the sense to protect them and yourself.

I asked no one to lie. All I asked my cousin was not to disclose that I was going. She was always welcome to tell any relative that she was going or that other cousins were. My own plans were not hers to disclose. But if you really thinks that's an outrageous expectation, the fact is that she agreed to this condition, I made my plans accordingly, then she broke her promise.

It's not reasonable or kind for me to go on vacation and then stand at the ready to leave, hailing my child off on an instant if things go south.

As for why this is different from home -- we have a system of safeguards here that we've figured out and that work for us. We also didn't want drama for other cousins and their kids if this person shows up. I don't know why it's hard to understand that I don't want other people to have to deal with her insanity on their hard-earned vacations. [/quote]

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