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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So there are people on this board who honestly think that couples should delay having a child so that they can attend a wedding?  For real?  Especially if they've already been trying for a year?

There were people who could not make it to my wedding, for a variety of reasons.  I was sad they weren't there, but it never occured to me that anyone should put their lives on hold to attend.  It was a special day for me, and I was grateful to have so many friends and family there to celebrate with us, but it wasn't such an important day that everyone needed to arrange their whole year around it.  Sheesh.  [/quote]

This.

I cannot believe people would delay having a baby to attend a wedding. That is crazy! Especially since most people have a small window of time to have kids - for most of my friends it's between 30 and 35. If you want 2 or more kids the timing is especially tight before you're considered high risk. If my brother asked me to delay having a baby because of his wedding I would question his sanity.[/quote]

Delay by two or so months. Just enough so you can attend the wedding of a FAMILY member.[/quote]

Yeah, someone who has been trying for a year isn't going to try to prolong shit just in case.

Also, you sound like a bitter shrew whose wedding no sane person would want to attend. [/quote]

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